The woman on this picture was so beautiful I kept staring at it for minutes before I pulled my camera out.
Another advertising which reflects the vibrancy of Africa.
Floor at Durban Airport, in South Afircan Colors. I am sure this was done for FIFA 2010, but I would not like a country’s colors on the ground where everyone can stomp their dirty shoes on it. But that may be a very Asian way of thinking. And the colors are beautiful.
Ah, this Elephant, would you guess what it is made of? Look at the following picture.
Beads!!!
July 14, 2012
I heard about this conference a year ago. Durban, South Africa.
My heart thumped. That
is so close to Botswana. South Africa is
all we heard when we were in Kanye, Botswana.
Like people hear Los Angeles when they are in Tijuana, Mexico.
Or like I heard U Penn and Penn State While I was at
Clarion.
So, I worked hard to send the abstracts. In fact the deadline was in February, the
month that I got sick. I had hard time
taking care of anything. At the end of
the month I had to be in India for another conference and some family time.
I remember the deadline was two days after I arrived in
Delhi, India. Remember sitting at the
internet café trying to finish my abstract and mail it out. I was exhausted and almost gave up. I wrote to another friend in the US who I
work with sometimes to send a joint paper.
So when I got to know that I had actually been accepted I
was delighted. There were conferences in
Turkey, and in the US. But I chose this. Only because I thought that I would go and
see the house where I lived….first time away from home.
I started seeing people I knew from years ago in my
dream. Signs started to pop up, I found
an old coin—One Pula, Botswana currency.
I met the two women I thought I wanted to see, in my dream. It was so real I had to shake myself up even
a few hours after waking up, to tell myself it was a dream.
In all this time I did not check two things, one how far was
Durban from Kanye, and second if I could stop in Jo Berg and hop onto Botswana
from there.
I have been very busy trying to organize my house. Trying to unpack. A young soul has been coming to help me do
that since the middle of June.
But I was still delighted to be back in Africa.
I realized that I could not get all the things done, so here
were a few things I did this time.
First, I chose to stay in the same city. For the three weeks, unlike other times when
I hop on and off from trains and planes to maximize on my travel.
Second, I asked my heart ---what do I really want to do in
Botswana?
I had no desire for Safari, or seeing animals in their element. I had one
that years ago. I have seen Giraffes crossing streets, Elephants in the wild,
Lions in lazing around in the sun and ostriches running crazy in dry grasslands.
What did I want to do?
I imagined standing outside my house and trying to look into
the eyes of my young self…..and ask, ‘Did you think you would be
returning? Did you think you would be at
a place you are now? What did you think you were going to be after you left?”
I imagined standing outside of my house and simply staring.
The thought that it might not be there did not occur to me
or worse that someone else might be living there, and the character of the
house…..might be very different.
It was a one-bedroom house.
I was the first ever tenant. That
was the first place I learnt to pay rent.
I had never paid rent before. I
lived with my parents before that.
I remember the first few months, I would just forget to pay rent and bills.
‘Bills?” What are those things?
‘Bills?” What are those things?
I also opened my first food can there. The only cans that we had used before were
for condensed milk. We are not used to
eating canned food. It is the biggest insult
to a household when they start using canned food.
I remember spending such a long time in trying to master the
can opener.
But then again, what would I do there? Nothing I guess. I remembered the long dirt
road to the main street from my house. I
remember the dirt road to Mathethe by my house.
The road lead to South Africa. And I had hardly been to the country.
So, I decided, I am not going back. But in reality I forgot to route my ticket
through Gabrone, Botswana’s capital. I guess I was also afraid of how much I
had to take care of.
I slept most of my ten hours of flight.
When I woke up, I was fresh, but not prepared for what was
going to happen. As I stepped out of the
plane, images, advertisements, words, people and smiles started to bring me to
the awareness, that ‘you are in Africa…..’
And then it happened. I stood in the middle of the baggage
claim area and cried. My chest shaking hard, teeth clenched to avoid making any noise, nostrils flared from the mere emotion.
Was I here ever? Did
Africa remember me?
Ah, that is a silly question…..
The question was, do you remember Africa? And what it meant to you….
I had thought that I did not miss it. I have always been biased towards Asia, and I
thought I did not care about Africa.
But I did.
I do.
Other than the fact there is some truth to Africa being
unsafe, I really did miss it.
I started to chat to people around. Noticed women with big behinds, men with
curly eyelashes. Children, not that afraid
of strangers.
Mothers holding children on their sides, as children rested
their soft faces in the curves of their mother’s necks. Women holding children on their back, with a
shawl.
I ended up in the wrong que.
A White South African man came up and pointed it to me.
At the end of the que he said I could choose, and I should
simply move towards the ‘foreign passport’ que.
I did.
‘Hello’ I said, with a little too much excitement.
“Hello’
I handed the disembarkation card and asked, Shall I show you
my passport?
“And can I have that please?” he pointed towards my hand.
“This? What?” He
pointed again.
Oh, my pen?
“Yes, I do not have one.’
When he saw a surprised look on my face….he said, ‘They stole mine,
eesh, I tell you, people are mean…”
And just hearing that accent, I laughed and asked, ‘Who is
mean to you?”
“Eh….there are too maney”
he said in his African accent…
As I was about to walk away, he held my pen and opened his
mouth to say something…
“Do you want me to
leave that with you?”
“Yes, Please.”
I laughed and walked away a pen lighter…
‘And we are back in Africa…’
No, I do not mean about people wanting your things, I mean,
by a simply happy gesture, a fun way of interacting and an acknowledgement,
--with a shrug…
‘Such is life’, and ‘have a nice day!!’
